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8/31/2005
relationship problems continue.... 8/31/2005 10:31:00 AM

UPDATE

present bf replies

Quote:

You live in your own sad on little imaginary life. She's here with me now and we're both reading your little pathetic reply. You reject her bec she cheated you? hahaha, I hope people here wont be so stupid to believe your co*k and bull, she saved your threatening sms's to her, asking her for sex etc. let's see who'll be making a police report ok? You came here without evil intentions? All your co*k and bull stories, she calls you to patch up? hahaha either you've got good imagination or you really need a life a**hole. You are a coward who's been rejected then exposed her identity to do her harm and now you're acting like you're protecting her? I think people can tell who came here with the evil intentions. Payback time, goodluck to you Alan Tan.


the ex replies

Quote:

Prove to me desmond or whatever name you are called....my threatening smses? I threaten her? This is real bullshit

I asked her for sex...? I have never sms her for this kinda of stuff ok....
I dun mind making a police report to see who is right.......and I would make sure you would be slapped with a heavy fine for slandering..
By the way do u understand what is slandering? Cos I know you are still a student...U might nt comprehend.


Lets make a police report....I wan this whole thing to be on newspaper........

coward? who u calling coward? who ran away when i called the cops....?
Who dun even dare to admit his real name when i asked him over the phone..?
Who lie to the police when the officer call up to ask whether you have been to my voideck ...who says they have never been there?
U dun even dare to answer the phone when the police call...

Its u bastard...

Who shouted in the phone that " I already f**k her when you were together with her"
Sometimes I just wonder...if she can do that to me....its sooner or later that she will do that to you...
Have it ever occured to you that is it ethical for you to do that to pple?
Maybe U werent that good in studies but I guess u were taught in school not to do onto others which you do not wan pple to do onto you....

However, she also told me of her only wish which is hoping that you would marry her after you finish your studies..which I seriously hope you are not playing with that promise.

I threaten her ....? what a joke...? what can i threaten her on?
To reveal to her mum that she has been f**k by you or to reveal what happened that night? Bet her whole family would wana know what happen?

I think I am already kind enuf not to reveal the truth to her sister when she emailed me what exactly happened...and did u check with her on her pleads on not to get the cops to arrest u...

I remembered very clearly: " Pls dun do that...He's is still a kid...."
U can check with her

For your infor, I have kept her emails that was sent to my personal account on :
- I am under tight supervision. He has access to all my emails, ICQ, friendster and hotmails. My old sim card has been burnt and

To verify this, I can send you what she has previously send me thru her company emails...

U wan that? I would be glad to forward the emails to her ...Free of charge....and to confirm that there is also another forummer who is her old friend and yes he's s a guy who also received her message on your unreasonable requests...I think she never thought that we could keep all those emails right


think the things are getting ugly liao... haiz.... how come can like that one? *shake head*
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8/30/2005
realtionship problems again.... 8/30/2005 12:14:00 PM

I got this from another forum... how relationship can turn to this.. haiz..

Quote:

Dion (Not her real name) was my gf for 2 years whom I knew her from chat. Ever since we been together, she has not been using mirc (the place which I got to know her). We actually went thru alot before we got together. Sex with her was fantastic from the stadium to the offices of my client and the staircases. We were very close, we even went on overseas trips to Redang and also plan for marriage in 2006.

Things went along fine as we would meet up after work and on weekends to her fav KBox and movies. However, as I start my seasonal peak period I slowly found that she would make excuses to go KTV with her so called kakis even late at night then choose to meet me. Eventually, things worsen as she would only occassionally meet me during weekends (She was a superglue in the past, would even travel to meet me for just half an hour). We started our quarrels and soon our rs took a turn for the worst when I initiated the breakup cos she seems to have more time with friends all the time rather than to spend a weekend with me.

The surprise came when she was fine with the breakup and onli 2 weeks after when I called her up to find out hw she is. She told me she got a bf already and can no longer be with me for some reasons. ( I guess she must have did it with him). I stressed that no matter what she did I would forgive her, if she were to come back to me. She just say she couldnt do that anymore. I asked her out to meet me one last time to tell me what happened and she promised me that she would meet me at night or call me.

On that fateful night, I waited till 11pm before I gave her a ring to check with her how come she did not return my call and about her promises to talk to me and meet me up and her bf picked up the call. I just asked to speak to her and he refused. The bf then got pissed off and asked me where I stayed. I told him where I stayed and he says he wanted to meet me to settle which he came shortly with my ex gf after and create a nuisance at my void deck and threatened to beat me up. I went downstairs to meet him but I stayed at a corner of the opposite block and also called the police at the same time to make sure that the police would catch him at the point that he beat me up.

The most shocking thing which I heard from him was " When you were together with your gf, I already f**k her liao so what you want"
Where on earth would a guy who snatched your gf say this f**k thing in front of the gal to embarrass her?
The bastard damaged every dustbin on my voideck and shouted my name aloud in the wee hours to antagonise me but I waited for the police. However,

With that, my heart sank and I told myself its all gone.
That bastard ran away with my ex gf when he knew that I had called the police.

I couldnt sleep for the whole night....just couldnt understand the whole picture until my ex called me on my phone to say sorry about jus now...
She also hinted that she did with the guy partially willingly but she was also forced to cos that guy was very violent.

She then explained that she got to know that guy from irc, his name is desmond 3 years younger than us (My gf and I same age 27 yrs old). He fetched her from work everyday after going for regular karaokes with him ( I was having my seasonal peak period that time and also serving my RT during that period). They have been cheating on me for 6 months. I just couldnt understand I did so much for her, pay everything for her including her ACCA fees. She dun have to worry about bringing any money when she was out with me and we were so happy when we booked our bridal photoshoot in March before the rs ended 2 weeks after.

I could still remember that bastard's details
Name: Desmond
School : SIM or SMU (take note of the school cos he is a dangerous rapist)
Address: Bukit Panjang
Age : 24 years old
Work : Work part time as a delivery guy

Ex gf's name: Dion xxx xxx xxx
Address : cck
Workplace : xxxxxtal Hotel ( Engineering Department)
Age : 27 years old
Fav : KTV

Shortly after I also received mails from her saying that she was constantly under supervision and the bastard forced her to give all MSN, friendster, yahoo and icq IDs and password so that he could check on her mails everyday.

Her sim card was also terminated as the bastard asked her to burn the sim card and forbid her to have any contacts with any other guys.

Initially I had wanted to forgive her but everytime I think of what they had done behind my back makes my blood boils..I wana make sure everybody knws who they are.

All along the bastard was the third party and he had the guts to threaten to beat me up and threaten my life which I had told my ex gf that I can easily have him arrested for life threats but she says he is just a kid.



the so called bf now replied..

Quote:

You wanna play somemore? I will reveal your address, phone number, work place etc. so people will know the real identity of you, Mr Alan Tan aka sore loser. Not happy?...you know my number...you know where to find me. This is a free world a**hole, people are free to choose who they want to be with......you kana reject, then come here, type all these one sided bullshit stories, then reveal us?....no wonder she dumped an a**hole like you.


the ex replied..

Quote:

Personally I think you are always trying to threaten me....and for what reasons should I be afraid....?

Until now you still duno who is in the wrong? If you would apologise for being such an a**hole, I would have forgiven you but the problem is you think that you are the victim.....
You think you have treated her well? By verbally and physically abusing her?
DO u think her parents like you? DO you even think that her sister like u?
Its your behaviour that needs to be reflected....

I have never seen a third party like you who stubbornly believed that he is right to f**k pple's gf and came to challenge me....

Its not about guts but for that challenge, I told myself that if you do any physical damage to me, I would be glad to get the cops to put you in jail.
What makes you think that you are right to do that?

Do you know what she tells me? She dun really love you but she is just afraid that you might do harm to her family if she leaves you...
You can verify with her on this....

Believe it of not, your gf emailed me to tell me what a poor state she is in and for your information, you cant always control whatever email she is using...though i know from her sources that her friendster, all emails except company, icq and almost all modes of communication is controlled by you.

You even got her to burn her old sim card....and for your info she doesnt have just one close guy friend.....she has alot of close guy friends who have been wanting to stay in contact with her.

I am not here to get her back or whatever cos from the time I knew she had betrayed me, I had never had the idea of wanting her back....
I only had one objective ...to lure u out into this forum to talk about your side of the story


haiz... how come got girl wan to go for the type of guy one?
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last weekend yo 8/30/2005 08:24:00 AM

last weekend, I went woodlands a while... then take bus to sengkang via 161 then change to train to meet up at kovan with loner, adolf and saigon for another pigout session in hougang....

i was late loh... for half an hour... the other three all there liao... then adolf pass me a pair of saf sandals he helped me to buy and the monkey i bought from the zoo last time... lolx...



then we proceed to the coffeeshop near the superbowl kovan to try out the western food... i forget to take pic until i ate all up... i think i am too hungry to think... lolx... it goes nice with my green tea...



then after that we walk to Lorang Ah Soo market... around a 20 min walk... then we go try the famous Chay Kway Diao there.... fried mee... we try out two plates.... one with lots of chilli and no Humps (for loner and adolf) and one with chilli at the side with Humps (for me and saigon)... the one with chilli is really red in color... haha, confirm alot of chillis added.... until loner buy a drink and adolf buy two drinks to get rid of the chilli... lolx....



then we decided to walk to blk 107 hawker centre to find the dian xing to eat.... but then by the time we reach there, then we know the stall is ceased to operate since after it revonation... sian.....

after this... we decided to go to hougang mall for air con and some ice cream....

i bought a pack of milo peng to drink... coz too thirsty for trying out so many food... lolx...

as we walk was chat and joke... fun sia....

we walk past the hougang park connector.... and i kanna threaten to be throw to the canal by saigon... knn... lolx

then i told them about this only block of flat in hougang perhaps the whole singapore with such a unique staircase...



then we rest a while for smoking break.... keke...

after that carry on our journey to hougang mall on foot...

before we reach secret call me and say he is joining us... i say ok meet at mac hougang mall later...

we settled down there and order 4 cone ice creams plus 4 free ice water.... later loner me and adolf order another extra water... really thristy....



then secret come... we proceed and walk to hougang blk 682 i think... for the famous 6 stone way ma chi.... order 3 plates of the ma chi and secret order his chicken wings for dinner....



after we ate finish we all decided to walk to serangoon north pasar malam to buy finger food to sit down to eat...

then we buy le sit at the void deck there to talk.... then talk til 11 plus... saigon go...

then me, loner, adolf and secret decided to go sengkang... then secret go to his home to find uno cards to play...

then we four play til 0ne plus then go.... lolx.
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8/26/2005
guys are jerk! 8/26/2005 09:30:00 AM

Please beware this is a long long entry...

the following is taken from my friend Xishi's blog....

August 19, 2005

Jerks are everywhere....

U guys must be tinking " why Xishi seems so anti-guys??" haha..but there are really alot of jerks around...

Heard a saucy piece of news from my friend just now.. she told me that she had a guy friend who finally got married a few yrs ago with his gf from Uni days.. The guy has been flirting non-stop since Uni days... finally married his gf... and after married he continued all these nonsense!! WTF!! Why married the gal when he wan to lead a Valentino-kind-of-lifestyle?? The wife can actually forgive her so-called husband and asked him to leave the gal.. FYI, the wife has knew all his flings all along.. Wao kaoz.. wat a big heart the wife has..

Then the guy told my friend dat he will break wif the gal, and u guess wats the reason given?? COS HE FIND THE GAL GETTING STICKY!! wao kao.. this guy is really a fucking selfish jerk who only care for himself.. He break wif the gal not becos he love his wife, JUST BECOS THE GAL IS STICKY and getting out of hand!! This means he did it for himself and not for his wife!! WTF.. i just tink this guy will never change, he will continue all his nonsense after breaking off with the sticky gal, TRUST GURU XISHI.. haha Like i said so many times, once married, pls be faithful, dun fool ard anymore. Pls show responsibility to the family... its really very important.

I dun wish to comment on the wife part, i tink it takes two hands to clap.. the husband may be tinking tat since my wife has been forgiving me, she WILL DEFINITELY forgive me again, so why the fuck stop??!! Some women are just so foolish tinking that the guy will change, BUT is difficult, maybe only when the guy turn 50plus and the dick cant stand then he will stop!! But now with VIAGRA, who cares!

I cant really say i pity the gal, she has the right to choose wat she want.

1. Divorce with the husband and carry on her life..the husband has been letting her down too many times.

2. Continue trusting her hubby that he will change, this may need God's help..

3. Still continue the husband and wife lifestyle, but wont bear any kids. Don't wish to give pain to the child with an unhappy family if they reallt decide to divorce down the road.

I know its easy for me to comment on pple's life, cos the needle was not pricked on me. Maybe when it happens to me, I may not be able to tink LOGICALLY at all..

Just like wat my mum told me, maybe she owes my father in her previous life, so this life she got to pay him back wat she owed him..thus my father has been letting her down so many times too....


Anyway I wonder the jerk above believe in KARMA?? If no, continue playing, next life will be pay back time..


firstly i felt pity in ur friend who married a jerk... but then hor... i dunno leh, alot of times myself, always tio rejected by girl... saying 'u r too good a man to be with, u deserve someone better'.... wat the hell sia... if we guy bad, we tio complain... if we are too good we will tio reject... like that how we lived? how we going to find love? haha but then it maynot be applying to all.

ok back to xishi's blog... hmmm how to say leh, i believed guys always are flirty around? hmmmm then also not all guys like that ba... i think that guy is still immature in thinking to get married and hence still anyhow bonk around. wonder if he knows about wat come around, goes around?

better wake up his idea loh....

but then some guys are good... remember wat i wrote about this couple who go around in bicycle to collect empty cans to sell together? wonder how much of these type of people still be around....

hmmmm... dunnooo...

as guys become more jerks, and girls not really chi de qi ku... think harder and harder liao...

so wat's love? something for u to rely on? or something to let u show others that u got someone?

how come some girls wanna be with jerks?

ok below are the common reasons why guys fail to get her.....

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women?And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.

What's going on here?

It's actually very simple...

Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

ok, guys lets be jerk.... lolx....

MISTAKE #2: Trying To “Convince Her To Like You”

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just notinterested?

Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".

Think about it.

If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.

Dun try changing.... a lepord never change its spot...

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.

Don't get me wrong here.

You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...

MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?

If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It's only NATURAL when this happens...

That's right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE #5: Sharing “How You Feel” Too Early In The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.

Attractive women are rare.

And they get a LOT of attention from men.

Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.

An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what?

Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.

That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.

This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.

Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.

There's a much better way...

MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women

Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.

You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.

But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

And ANY guy can learn how...

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.

And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.

Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.

Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.

Another bad idea...

Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of situation With Women

Now I'm going to blow your mind...

A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical... everything.

If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.

I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.

Hey, I've been there myself.

Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women...

About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.

It frustrated the hell out of me.

One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.

Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.

I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.

It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.

I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.


well the rest are simple... i lazy to say...

coz guys simple... girls complex... lolx
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taurus me! 8/26/2005 08:30:00 AM

horoscope.... of mine....

金牛座的失恋伪装:忙碌

  失恋的牛牛通常会把自己的日程表安排得满满的,加班、出游、回家陪父母是牛牛在失恋期最好的“伪装”。因为对於牛牛来说,忘记一个人是艰难的,还不如把思念的精力转移到工作、娱乐上来,不让自己有空馀的时间去想那段感情反而更好。

  转移一下精力也好

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金牛座★

  最酷代名词:热水瓶

  金牛座的人口硬心软,是典型的外冷内热性格。嘴巴爱逞强,内心却极度渴望得到别人的关怀。无论遇到甚么困难或不公平对待,总表现得像个大男人或女强人,即使有泪也只会默默往心里流,更不会向人诉说委屈,即使内心咬牙切齿。不过只要有人稍为关心,就会甜在心里。

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for girls...

对付金牛座的必胜绝招

  1.不够美丽大方也要温良恭俭让。

  2.自然就是美朴素淡雅他比较容易放下戒心。

  3.快去上烹饪教室,要捉住金牛男人一定得抓住他的胃。

  4.展显理家长才让他知道?很会精打细算却不必锱铢必较。

  5.以时间换取空间他可是很会蘑菇的。
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8/25/2005
hate the people from ur own forum 8/25/2005 09:58:00 AM

if u hate someone from ur own forum... wat should u do? tell me.... cannot anyhow ban... cannot anyhow edit their posts.... coz even if u r admin u need to control wat u do one right?

sian....
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8/24/2005
peanut note! 8/24/2005 02:26:00 PM

got the following online....

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"The Monetary Authority of Singapore (MAS) launched a brand new
Singapore Dollar bill, which has been named the "Peanut Series".

Each peanut series bill is legal tender equivalent to 600,000 Singapore Dollars, henceforth known as 1 Peanut.

The CEOs across the Republic have been quick to applaud the launch of
The 1 Peanut bill. In an interview with a Mr. Durai, a CEO of a
Philanthropic organisation, who wished to remain anonymous, he said,
"Now I don't have to carry suitcases of money home. Prior to the
issuing of the Peanut, I had to carry a whole suitcase of small change
home every month. This is because the people who paid me tend to do so
in small amounts, like $5 dollars each time, and it can be very
irritating. Now I am just paid 1 Peanut with a single bill, slip it
quickly into my wallet and off I go. It's very convenient!"

The reaction by the general public was however cool. Most said that it
is unlikely that they will ever use a 1 Peanut bill. With a average
national income of S$3000 (0.005 Peanut), the average Singaporean will
need about 2 lifetimes to save a Peanut.

Said a Mr. Tan, who is a plumber, "The other day, I installed a golden
tap in some CEO's bathroom and he paid me using 1 Peanut for the $1000
golden tap. I tell him where got enough change?

Watch out for the newest security features on the 1 Peanut note,
Including a new watermark which replaces the traditional lion head. The
New Watermark can only be seen under an intense bright light and close
scrutiny because of its extreme lack of transparency.

According to MAS spokesman, the added security features are extremely
important given that 1 Peanut can probably buy three 4-room HDB flats,
or 10 Nissan Sunnies, the average Singaporean will be very tempted to
Lay their hands on a Peanut."

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8/23/2005
online paid survey 8/23/2005 02:01:00 PM

anyone interested? 18 and above please.... leave me ur email addy send to dj_paul_asden@yahoo.com.sg

keke... got money earn together....
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8/22/2005
last weekend 20th august 8/22/2005 08:57:00 AM

yawn... sleepy day man today... lolx...

haha sat, met up with loner to go tiong bahru plaza to meet with adolf for dinner.... taken all buses journey.... 72 to hougang interchange, then 107 to lavendar, then change to 33 to bring us to tiong bahru plaza... passed by china town and took a few pics....







then on the way to tiong bahru also take pic.... the old flats... they are going to tear them down... sad sia




then reach liao met adolf at tiong bahru mrt... then walk to the tiong bahru market... which is actually quite nearby....

then loner goes around ordering the food...

we ate oyster olemette, mutabak, hong kong mee, wu xiang, stingray, chilli kangkong and drinks of sugarcane and ma ti.... total eaten $46.50! worth of hawker food





very filling....too filling... is actually over filling... how 3 guys going to finish all up?

then we decided to go to the one ktv to sing... take a walk half way then we all give up... then take bus 33 and alight at outram park....

saw my primary aka secondary school long time never see friend fuming there... haha... he used to be looked like Dave Wong (wang jie) one... skinny... now Dave fatter he also fatter... lol

then we went to the ktv via the chinatown howker centre there.... pass by the 7th month Ge Tai, so we went in listen to one song....



that singer at first we thought is chen jin rang... but is not... he is singing rong shu xia... lol.... interesting...

then we go the one and sing.... got alot of ang mo songs with orginial MTV!

sing a few linkin parks and red hot chilli pepper song...

shiok...

i never know i can sing like them sia...

then have a couple of beers there... then the bill around 93 bucks for 3 persons 3 hours....




after that take cab home with loner..... cab with midnight at 12 bucks...

keke...

for more pics... can prefer to my gallery at http://loveless-deejay-eyes.blogspot.com
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ngee ann city robber 8/22/2005 08:40:00 AM

got the following from email... so ppl take note ok?
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On 8/5/05, Eunice Ling < eunice.ling@rwwnet.com.sg> wrote:

Dear Friends

I wish to bring to your attention an incident that happened to me on the 5th July 2005 , at Ngee Ann City , in Singapore . I was man-handled by a dark-skinned male assailant and robbed. Please be very careful when you park in that building or if you walk around that building late at night.

Account of Incident:

After dinner with 2 girlfriends at Orchard Road around 11.20pm on 5th July, I walked alone to Ngee Ann City to pick up my car which was parked at Basement3. I tried to enter Ngee Ann from the doors facing Civic Plaza but found ALL of them locked (the last time I entered the building at this late hour was about 2yrs ago, and then, there was a door near Mont Blanc/Cartier that was still open). I tried all the doors twice to double-check there was no way of entry.

There were no security guards around that Civic Plaza side whom I can approach for help. The only signboards available were the ones placed at every automated door saying that the business hours of Ngee Ann ends at 11pm . After trying in vain for 15 mins, I called up a male colleague to ask if he possibly knew the way of entry to the carpark. He told me that very likely, the entrance is now situated at the back of the building (the side where the taxi stand and sushi tei is) facing Orchard Turn.


While still on the phone with him, I walked via the pavement next to Louis Vuitton boutique to the back of the building. I remember that most of the lights along that pavement were not switched on, so it was very dim. As I make a left turn at the corner near Crystal Jade Hu Cui, someone grabbed me from the back and covered my face with his palm and wrestle me. Instinctively, I screamed and shouted very loudly, thinking of the worst that could happen.

My retaliation and reaction must have shocked him, because he panicked and only ran away with my mobile phone. I saw him running down Orchard turn, in the direction towards Mandarin Hotel.


I was in a shock for a while and decided to walk back to Civic Plaza to get help.The shop attendant at the 7-11 kiosk at Civic Plaza helped and we called the Ngee Ann security office. 2 security officers turned up a few mins later and took the details and my contacts down. They also confirmed that the ONLY way to get to the carpark after 11pm is via the Firemen's Lift near the corner I was attacked. I asked to report to the police.


The patrol car came about 10mins later with 3 police officers. They interviewed me and filed a report. By this time, the security officers had gone off and left me to my wits to get to the carpark again! It was the 3 policemen who were nice enough to walk me to my car. Enroute, we passed the place I was attacked and they saw that there was a security camera situated there.We have hope to be caught on tape. By the way, the Firemen's Lift is situated at a dark corner and encased by 2 doors. If I! had been attacked there, it could have been worse, because no amount of screaming would help!


The next day, around 12noon, I rang up the Senior Manager for Ngee Ann City Management Office, Mr Leon Tan, to ask why no one bothered to follow-up with me. I was shocked to learn that he was not even informed of the attack! At 2.30pm that day, Mr Kenny Seah (Security Manager for Ngee Ann) rang me. He claimed that he tried to contact me around 9plus in the morning. However, I had no missed calls or messages left for me. I asked to view the security videos and went down to see him around 2.45pm .

He played back a tape for me, which showed the camera where I was attacked facing the other direction. I asked him if there were any other cameras there. He walked me back! to the scene and there was another camera facing the stairs where I walked up just before I was attacked. Ken ny said he viewed that tape too, but it was too dark to make out any details. (Too dark confirmed that the lights were not switched on sufficiently). And, why didn't he show me that tape??? I asked Kenny why the ONLY way to the carpark after office hours was so dimly lit.


He replied that the security tried to reflect that to the management before, but the management felt that too much lighting is a waste of money!! Kenny also rang Toshin Company (which he said is in charged of the doors facing Civic Plaza to ask if any doors were opened past 11pm the night I was attacked).
Kenny claimed that one was open, but this conflicts with my personal experience and the statement made by his OWN security officers who came to the
scene after my report of being attacked!

What I do not understand is:

Why was the only entrance to the carpark after 11pm the Firemen's Lift situated in the dark corner at the back of the building, which can ONLY be accessed via
A walkway where lighting was minimized to cut down cost?

No security officers were seen at the side facing Civic Plaza patrolling the grounds?

Why after the incident, no one from the management bothered to do any follow-up and why the claims made were all contradictory to the facts???

I was very blessed that the assailant is not armed. Rather than leaving it to chance, this lapse in security at Ngee Ann City has to be addressed before someone really gets hurt or raped!


Take Care & God Bless!

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8/19/2005
updated MRT line part 2 8/19/2005 08:07:00 AM

a repost! due to the image not showing....

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The first map is actually the map I come out with from the second map of the Singapore Concept Plan 21 come out by the Government. Hmmmm notice quite alot of new lines? Like Bt Timah Line, Eastern Region, Jurong Region, Inner Circle Line, North Shore Line, and those lines in grey.... (those in grey I dunno how to name them.. they are far too complex liao.... and i noticed my homeground, hougang will have LRT system! wee weee... cant wait for it....

Well, at first I come out with this map... but i think is not detail enough... hence the second one come out...

i wont draw anymore liao... until government announced new lines that are not in the plan.... or else i will hang paper, magic inks, printer up til further notice... lolx...

til then people.....
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8/18/2005
nice short film 8/18/2005 09:03:00 AM

http://www.canon.com.sg/dvfest/bestfilm/film13.html

this film is good sia... horror....
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unwanted pregency.... 8/18/2005 08:44:00 AM

a president scholar and a girl.... coz this baby, and make misery out of every one..... click here to read.....

and another one.... the whole story....

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Her love story...a tragic

This is her story, a sad one but there's lessons to be learnt from it. For those who tried cotacting her but couldn't, there's a reason, read on & u'll find out why. This goes to all single mums out there & for ladies who are in the midst of deciding to keep their babies.Hope it can be an encouragement to them.

It all started with a smile but ended with none...

One & a half years ago, she met someone from her church (sorry,can't mention the church name), her pastor's son. It all started with a simple smile at him and soon they started dating and got together. His name is jxxl, and she is HH. Jxxl wanted the relationship to be kept a secret so she respected him. All the while, when they were together, no one knew about it. It was only when HH got pregnant that she told her best friend about it and she in turn told her pastor. HH knew that this was wrong and wanted a break up, but Jxxl assured her that he will marry her and she gave in to him and didn't break up. There were many other times that HH wanted to break up with him: he stole $600 worth of liquer from her sister, stolen packets of cigarettes form her, stole HH's atm card and money, stole her credit card and sunscribe to pronography website, used her hp many times without her knowledge and called sex hotlines..and HH failed to do so because he'll convince her that he's sorry and that he loves her and will change for her. (She was wrong!Read on and u'll know why)

When HH's pastor and his wife knew about her pregnancy, they were grieve stricken.. HH met up with her pastor in his office and told him everything. She really trusted him and believed that his advice would be wise and good. He told her that it was unwise for her to keep the baby and raise him up herself. HH was strongly advised to go to carlifornia, bring the baby to full term and give the baby away for adoption. This way, no one will know about it and she could come back Singapore afresh. She did not have to worry about the money issue and all will be taken care of. Even if she have to break her teaching bond($76K), they'll take care of it.This plan sounded good because she had no one else to turn to or talk to for all this is supposed to be kept a secret. HH was not to discuss the matter with anybody else and she agreed to it. She was also strongly advised not to attend church during her pregnacy to prevent stumbling others.

However, after HH's first scanning she gave up the whole idea. When she saw her baby and his heart beating from the ultrascan, she cried and realised that he is her flesh and blood, he's alive, he's her son! She just could not give him away for adoption. She decided to keep her baby no matter what happens.

A series of bad things happened before HH could tell her family about her pregnancy. Within the same month, three relatives passed away and she simply could not grieve them further. It was only after another month later that she told them about the whole issue. They were furious and grieved at first but were all supportive of keeping the baby.

Soon both Jxxl and HH's family met up and discussed about HH's pregnancy issue. HH's family wanted them to get married, Jxxl's parents didn't want them to.They were still persisitant of HH sending the baby away for adoption. HH's brother asked Jxxl in front of everyone if he wanted to marry her and his reply was, "yes i will marry her but not now." Since both parties could not come to any agreement, the meeting ended and HH's family were told to have another meeting one month later.

HH did not know if she was over sensitive, but it seems that after she had decided to keep her baby, her pastor stopped contacting her and all the help and support ceased. one month later, HH's brother tried to arrange for another meeting but couldn't because Jxxl's parents said they were busy. They dragged the meeting till HH was one week away from her delivery date.

During all these time, many things happened between jxxl and HH. Before the meeting HH asked Jxxl again if he wanted to marry her but this time the reply was different. He said, "No, i'm not ready." So she gave up the whole idea of marriage and told her family about it. They respected her decision and said that they'll meet up with Jxxl's parents only to discuss about financial issue and the custody of the baby.

HH managed to apply for one year no pay leave and stayed at home to rest. However, she was running short of cash because all the while Jxxl's been taking money from her and he kept assuring her that he'll pay her back. He told her not to worry about the hospital delivery fees ($600 deposit) and that he'll settle it. HH trusted him, but even till five days before her delivery date he still didn't pass her a single cent. Two days before her delivery date he finally told her that he's got no money and his parents will settle after that, but for the time being HH need to get the money herself. She was shocked when he told her that, but she managed to borrow money from her sister for the hospital deposit.

HH's baby came one day before the expectation date. It was on a monday night(7/3/05) that she started to feel the labour pain. She called jxxl and he said that he was at parklane playing games and may not be able to accompany her to the hospital, but he'll try. HH tried calling him mqany times after that but he didn't answer her calls and she gave up. HH's mum accompanied her to the hospital instead. She gave birth on 8/3/05 around 2 plus in the afternoon. She wept for joy e moment she saw her baby.

Though things were tough for HH, it was all worthwhile for the little one. Many of HH's relatives and her best friend came to visit her. But, no sign of Jxxl or his family! Jxxl only came to visit baby and her the night they discharged from hospital.HH started to feel that Jxxl was hiding something from her because he stopped seeing or calling her as often and sometimes even refused to answer her calls.

One night while Jxxl was sleeping she did something she never would have done. HH took his handphone and read his messages. It was really an coincidence that he lost his handphone a few days ago and forgot to set his pin code for the new handphone that she was able to see his messages and contacts. Almost all the messages were from a girl called Leoxnx and they were intimate messages. HH was quite certain that Jxxl was cheating on her. After He left my house she summoned all her courage and called Leoxnx. HH told her she's Jxxl's girlfriend and asked Leoxnx who is she to Jxxl. She told HH she was also his girlfriend. They talked and HH told her everything about them, the baby and all. What Leoxnx told HH almost shocked her to death... She told HH that Jxxl and her were together for about a month. What hurt HH most was that they've had sex many times and even on the night that she was in labour, they were having sex in parklane's toilet. Outrageous!No wonder Jxxl didn't want to accompany her to the hospital that night & refused to answer her calls.

HH finally confronted Jxxl. At first he denied but confessed finally. He told HH that he didn't love leoxnx at all only liked her and used her for sex because he couldn't have sex with HH. HH wanted to break uo with him but he didn't want to. He asked HH for one last chance and said that once he goes to uraguay to stay with a pastor for 4 months he'll change..for HH and for the baby. He said he loves HH and will not cheat on her ever. HH love him and gave in to his pleas. He broke up with Leoxnx a few days later and told HH he'll never see Leoxnx again.

Things seemed to be quite alright for both HH and Jxxl, but another 2 weeks later something else happened again that changed everything. HH and her baby had been sick for 1 week and Jxxl had not visited them. He only called occasionally to ask what she was doing and always said that he's at katong shopping centre playing games. HH felt suspicious because how could someone not come and see his son and girlfriend for an entire week knowing that they are sick? HH felt that he's cheating on her again. HH was right! Jxxl cheated on her again! This time its with a girl called Shxtxng that he picked up from zouk. Shxtixg and HH talked and Shxtxng said the same thing, that she's also Jxxl's girlfriend. Sxutxng said Jxxl goes to her NUS hostel almost every night and had sex there.

HH confronted Jxxl and he confessed to her. However this time, things were different. He said he really liked Shxtixg alot and didn't want to break off with her. He also wanted to stay with HH and asked her to wait for him to come back after 8 months to see how things goes. He said he did not know what will happen after 8 months. Maybe he'll choose to be with HH maybe Shxtixg. There's no assurance at all. So finally, HH decided to break off with him. HH could not stand sharing a boyfriend with another person knowing that he liked her also. He did not want the break up but HH forced him to. He did not have a choice this time, and HH told him that she would cut off all contacts from now on. This happened on the 16 April 2005. So, that's almost the summary of what happened so far. HH's heart is still hurting alot, so much that She would rather die if she can. But she did not, for she needed to be strong for her child & her family.

Well, so much has happened to HH...Many times she thought of killing herself but did not because of God and her baby. What HH has been through is indeed very tough and painful, if she could pull through and give birth to her baby, anyone else could too. HH has now stepped out of darkness and is living in the light and truth again. Hope this story can encourage women who are struggling to make a decision to keep their babies.

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8/17/2005
president for another 6 years! 8/17/2005 04:41:00 PM

haha kinda sian no public holiday liao.... the other three no use one leh....

lolx...

anyway, nathan is a nice guy.... :) all the way my dear Mr President!
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photos last sat? 8/17/2005 10:56:00 AM

haha think time for me to post some photos of myself ba... taken last sat at zoo and cosy bay... using adolf camera...


at the air con room at zoo to relac....


wishing well, what to wish for when my heart is so chaos?


cosy bay, pool and griever

lolx
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8/16/2005
msn checker! 8/16/2005 05:28:00 PM

see who deleted u in msn!

http://msncheck.41m.com

i got 31 persons deleted me....

sad.....
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reader digest lucky draw! 8/16/2005 10:27:00 AM

well last week i think i recieve a letter with a photo inside...



ask me to watch out for this envelop that might come in a weeks times....

finally a week later the envelope full of stuffs come....



it reads in front..



half a million!

it makes me so excited, suddenly so much money..... must thank the one who send me this...



turn to the back...



benefits all granted... sound not bad right? 1/2 a million.... who dun wans....

then when i open... chey... inside no check... only alot of papers....



the cover letter... write alot of words... i dun understand lah.... so where is the hell of my money granted?

turn to the back i saw a hp! Nokia 7270! wee wee



decided for a close up for that hp...



and it reads only 10 sets nia! wah lao.... how to win? haiz... then nevermind look for other stuffs....



tear open for a mystery gift... maybe that check is hidden inside loh... lets tear open and see what is inside....



stamps? and somemore the stamps cannot be used to post letters one leh.... singapore dun have the queen one.... but wait... it say see enough to claim mystery gift...i got three can claim liao!

see where to take my prize....



huh? need to paste there and send.... u know wat envelope is it? is a yes envelope... which u need to subscribe the reader digest for dunno how long sia.... bth... i dun really like reading that book one...



there the above one loh.... sian liao... nevermind can try to make it like stamp... maybe can mail to england for free.. i try liao tell u hor...

another letter..



i know i english lousy.... u want to help me by giving 15 bucks discount....



but how come must also go to the yes envelope!!!!! pengz....

then i saw a secret envelope... hmmm



open inside.....

sian more paper... give up... nothing inside for me one.....
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