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Dion (Not her real name) was my gf for 2 years whom I knew her from chat. Ever since we been together, she has not been using mirc (the place which I got to know her). We actually went thru alot before we got together. Sex with her was fantastic from the stadium to the offices of my client and the staircases. We were very close, we even went on overseas trips to Redang and also plan for marriage in 2006.

Things went along fine as we would meet up after work and on weekends to her fav KBox and movies. However, as I start my seasonal peak period I slowly found that she would make excuses to go KTV with her so called kakis even late at night then choose to meet me. Eventually, things worsen as she would only occassionally meet me during weekends (She was a superglue in the past, would even travel to meet me for just half an hour). We started our quarrels and soon our rs took a turn for the worst when I initiated the breakup cos she seems to have more time with friends all the time rather than to spend a weekend with me.

The surprise came when she was fine with the breakup and onli 2 weeks after when I called her up to find out hw she is. She told me she got a bf already and can no longer be with me for some reasons. ( I guess she must have did it with him). I stressed that no matter what she did I would forgive her, if she were to come back to me. She just say she couldnt do that anymore. I asked her out to meet me one last time to tell me what happened and she promised me that she would meet me at night or call me.

On that fateful night, I waited till 11pm before I gave her a ring to check with her how come she did not return my call and about her promises to talk to me and meet me up and her bf picked up the call. I just asked to speak to her and he refused. The bf then got pissed off and asked me where I stayed. I told him where I stayed and he says he wanted to meet me to settle which he came shortly with my ex gf after and create a nuisance at my void deck and threatened to beat me up. I went downstairs to meet him but I stayed at a corner of the opposite block and also called the police at the same time to make sure that the police would catch him at the point that he beat me up.

The most shocking thing which I heard from him was " When you were together with your gf, I already f**k her liao so what you want"
Where on earth would a guy who snatched your gf say this f**k thing in front of the gal to embarrass her?
The bastard damaged every dustbin on my voideck and shouted my name aloud in the wee hours to antagonise me but I waited for the police. However,

With that, my heart sank and I told myself its all gone.
That bastard ran away with my ex gf when he knew that I had called the police.

I couldnt sleep for the whole night....just couldnt understand the whole picture until my ex called me on my phone to say sorry about jus now...
She also hinted that she did with the guy partially willingly but she was also forced to cos that guy was very violent.

She then explained that she got to know that guy from irc, his name is desmond 3 years younger than us (My gf and I same age 27 yrs old). He fetched her from work everyday after going for regular karaokes with him ( I was having my seasonal peak period that time and also serving my RT during that period). They have been cheating on me for 6 months. I just couldnt understand I did so much for her, pay everything for her including her ACCA fees. She dun have to worry about bringing any money when she was out with me and we were so happy when we booked our bridal photoshoot in March before the rs ended 2 weeks after.

I could still remember that bastard's details
Name: Desmond
School : SIM or SMU (take note of the school cos he is a dangerous rapist)
Address: Bukit Panjang
Age : 24 years old
Work : Work part time as a delivery guy

Ex gf's name: Dion xxx xxx xxx
Address : cck
Workplace : xxxxxtal Hotel ( Engineering Department)
Age : 27 years old
Fav : KTV

Shortly after I also received mails from her saying that she was constantly under supervision and the bastard forced her to give all MSN, friendster, yahoo and icq IDs and password so that he could check on her mails everyday.

Her sim card was also terminated as the bastard asked her to burn the sim card and forbid her to have any contacts with any other guys.

Initially I had wanted to forgive her but everytime I think of what they had done behind my back makes my blood boils..I wana make sure everybody knws who they are.

All along the bastard was the third party and he had the guts to threaten to beat me up and threaten my life which I had told my ex gf that I can easily have him arrested for life threats but she says he is just a kid.

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You wanna play somemore? I will reveal your address, phone number, work place etc. so people will know the real identity of you, Mr Alan Tan aka sore loser. Not happy?...you know my number...you know where to find me. This is a free world a**hole, people are free to choose who they want to be with......you kana reject, then come here, type all these one sided bullshit stories, then reveal us?....no wonder she dumped an a**hole like you.

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Personally I think you are always trying to threaten me....and for what reasons should I be afraid....?

Until now you still duno who is in the wrong? If you would apologise for being such an a**hole, I would have forgiven you but the problem is you think that you are the victim.....
You think you have treated her well? By verbally and physically abusing her?
DO u think her parents like you? DO you even think that her sister like u?
Its your behaviour that needs to be reflected....

I have never seen a third party like you who stubbornly believed that he is right to f**k pple's gf and came to challenge me....

Its not about guts but for that challenge, I told myself that if you do any physical damage to me, I would be glad to get the cops to put you in jail.
What makes you think that you are right to do that?

Do you know what she tells me? She dun really love you but she is just afraid that you might do harm to her family if she leaves you...
You can verify with her on this....

Believe it of not, your gf emailed me to tell me what a poor state she is in and for your information, you cant always control whatever email she is using...though i know from her sources that her friendster, all emails except company, icq and almost all modes of communication is controlled by you.

You even got her to burn her old sim card....and for your info she doesnt have just one close guy friend.....she has alot of close guy friends who have been wanting to stay in contact with her.

I am not here to get her back or whatever cos from the time I knew she had betrayed me, I had never had the idea of wanting her back....
I only had one objective ...to lure u out into this forum to talk about your side of the story