my aunt's husband passed away. think should called him yi chang. not really closed to him, but then he was a nice chap to me. :) RIP.
and about the tug of war yesterday. give me alot of thoughts on things. i kinda feel that it is like life. life, is already so tensed, like before the start of the pull, u need to pull a certain strength to get ready. and if u need to win in life, u need to pull harder, and be stronger. and then if the rope is too slippery and went away, depends on yourself, to see if you will wan to get up to grab it or let it go and lose.
if you let go and lose, dun regret, there is only this one chance for u to pull.
for me i stand up and pull again, even through i fall, i still stand up to pull. with all my strength never give up.
but will i be strong in life like how i pull the rope?
or will i let go when it get too tough to carry on?
dunno